Yityish Aynaw will fit in fine at the president’s table – it’s time to shake off the notion that intelligence and beauty don’t mix
As President Obama gets ready to visit Israel next week, news that Yityish Aynaw, the newly crowned Miss Israel, has been invited to dine with him and other VIPs at the state dinner has raised a few eyebrows. Why would a beauty queen be invited to attend a 120-person event that will feature political heavyweights such as Binyamin Netanyahu and the IDF chief of general staff, Lt general Benny Gantz?
From what I’ve heard of Aynaw’s life story and political views, she is not only thoughtful and smart, but also well aware of the power and responsibility that her position wields. As an orphan – her father died when she was two, her mother when she was 12 – her life story is one of triumph over adversity. In other words, she’s really no airhead. Aynaw knows that as an Ethiopian Jew, and Israel’s first black beauty queen, she is overturning stereotypes of beauty within her own country and around the world. She is now a role model to other black women – and believe me, we still face constant invalidation as to how we look and think. Thanks to her new title, Aynaw can provide some leadership in a country in which the 120,000 strong Ethiopian Israeli community faces open hostility and racism.
As we progress in our dialogue about what it means to be a woman, isn’t it time to shake off the notion that intelligence and beauty are mutually exclusive? Isn’t it time that we stop giving credence to the idea that a beautiful woman – even one like Aynaw, who hasn’t received a formal higher education – would have nothing to offer, nor that she could not hold her own in a room of powerful men?
And, I ask, why shouldn’t a woman make the most of what she has in order to expand her life’s options, even if what she has is, yes, her natural beauty? How is this much different from what models do around the world every day? History also suggests that it is possible to use a beauty contest win as a springboard to much greater opportunities (just look at Oprah Winfrey and Halle Berry).
Just as President Obama’s wins have been symbolic of shifts in America’s generational, racial and cultural landscape, Aynaw’s new title may also be indicative of societal changes in Israel that may eventually have a much greater and wider impact. She undoubtedly can communicate a view that most have never heard before. She credits Obama as a source of inspiration and clearly feels a kinship with him. I can understand why he would be interested in meeting her.